Grief

Grief
You may wonder why I’d write on grieving, but it’s been on my heart for a couple of weeks now. It’s not something fun to talk about but happens to us at some time or another in our lives.
Grief comes in many forms. I’ve experienced grief. The definition of grief is a keen mental suffering, distress over an affliction or loss; painful regret, sorrow, and suffering disappointment.

The first time I experienced real grief was the breakup of my boyfriend and I. He dumped me for another girl and it broke my heart. I cried what seemed a river of tears.

I remember when my grandmother died; my husband, Keith and I had only been married a little over a month. She had a stroke and went into a coma and I never got to say good-bye. The last time I spoke with her was on my wedding day.

Grandma Browning and I were very close. I grieved her passing for a long time. I use to spend a lot of summers with her as a little girl and through my teenage years. She used to make all my clothes as a young girl and take me to church with her. There were many special times we shared.

When our family pet Cecil died that was a hard time. He had been a wonderful cat. We all grieved over his loss, especially our girls.

The day that both of our girls left for college at the same time….I grieved. I felt I was in mourning because they both were gone and I felt my days of being mom were over. Going into their bedrooms and looking at all their things I would cry. That was a difficult and very real time of sadness for me.

Letting them go and trusting that God would take care of them was hard. As mom’s we want to “fix” everything and everyone. Knowing they were several hours away and not under our roof I felt a loss.

Last summer my father in law became very ill and Keith rushed to be by his side. The girls and I made the trip separately so that we could be with their papa. We’re so thankful that we had extra time to be with him, but he passed away a few months later.

We've all grieved in our own ways. I’ve seen our girls grieve for their papa. It can be a memory or something that reminds them of the loss that he is gone for now. Just out of nowhere the tears and sadness can come.

As Christians we believe that we will see Papa and Grandma Browning and all those loved ones that have gone on before us. It will be a wonderful time in heaven to be with them again!

Good friends of ours recently loss their son of only 33 years. I’ve gotten a glimpse of how they’ve struggled with their loss. It brings comfort to them to know that their son is with the Lord and through that God is bringing healing to their hearts through the love of their friends, family and God’s word.

There are other times in my life I’ve grieved….for loss of friends or folks that have chosen not to be a part of my life anymore, or have moved on. Being in pastoral ministry we experience this quite often. At times, you just don’t want to put yourself out there and be vulnerable because you feel that you will be hurt and abandoned once again.

I’m learning to embrace what TD Jakes says about “Letting Go.” It’s hard to let go, but we must so that we’re not hindered from doing what God wants in our lives. The scripture says we see through a glass darkly, we can’t see the whole picture, but God does.
1 Corinthians 13:12 (New International Version)
12Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

I trust that indeed He will work all things together for our good and that He is faithful to complete that good thing He has begun in us!
Philippians 1:6 (New International Version)
6being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.

It’s natural to grieve; even Jesus wept and grieved the loss of his good friend Lazarus. He knows our hurts and our pain.
John 11:32 – 35,
32When Mary reached the place where Jesus was and saw him, she fell at his feet and said, "Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died."
33When Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who had come along with her also weeping; he was deeply moved in spirit and troubled. 34"Where have you laid him?" he asked. "Come and see, Lord," they replied. 35Jesus wept.

Below are five steps to grieving by Dr. Elizabeth Kubler-Ross. Prayerfully, if you aren’t aware of these they will be helpful to you in your steps of grieving.

The Five Stages of the Grief

Grief can occur as the result of a number of different events – someone we know dies, a relationship ends, we lose a pet, we have to give up a long held goal in our life, or any other number of situations. But there is one common denominator in all of these events, and that is loss. Grief is a process of physical, emotional, social, and cognitive reactions to loss. The grieving process is often a hard one to work through. It requires patience with ourselves and with others.

Although responses to loss are as diverse as the people experiencing it, patterns or stages that are commonly experienced have emerged.

These stages were identified and named by Dr. Elizabeth Kubler-Ross. Knowing these five stages can sometimes help in coping with the process of grief and recognizing that there is light at the end of the tunnel. It should be noted that although most people experience all of the following stages, they do not experience them with the same duration, or in the same order, or with the same intensity. It is a very unique process.

Denial
Denial is generally the first stage in the grief process. It can be experienced as numbness or avoidance or isolation or direct denial. It is a stage in which we just cannot believe that the loss is true. We may tell ourselves that it did not really happen. It does not seem real.


Anger
Another stage of grief is anger. At this point, we have gotten past some or all of the denial, but now we are angry about the loss. We may want to take it out on something or someone, or we may just express our anger in ways that are familiar to us.

Bargaining
In the bargaining stage, we are trying to come up with ways to get back what we lost or just find someone or something to blame. Common thoughts include "If only I had just …." or "I wish we could have…." or "Maybe if I do this…." In the case of a lost relationship, we might actually bargain with the person we lost in an effort to get them back. "If I change my behavior, will you come back?"

Depression
The depression stage is just as it sounds, a time of sadness. It generally follows denial, anger, and bargaining when we feel helpless and hopeless to stop the loss. It may include crying, withdrawal, or any other way that expresses sadness.

Acceptance
The final stage is acceptance. Most often we have gone through all of the above stages and in many cases cycled through the above stages more than once before getting to acceptance. At this stage, we have (to some extent) reorganized ourselves and our thinking to incorporate the loss. This does not mean that we no longer get sad about the loss from time to time, but the sadness is now a part of us and does not keep us from functioning normally most of the time. Over time, the intensity of the sadness generally diminishes, but may never entirely go away.

Armed with the knowledge of these five stages, we can now better understand ourselves and others who are going through the grief process. Recognizing the stages can increase your empathy and support for others and provide permission for yourself to go through the process in your own way and in your own time.

©2000 Lori Godin, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. She can be reached in San Jose, California, at 408.260.9996.

Love & Hugs,
LaDonna

Fresh Fire speaker: Dawnita Istre

Section 13 is proud to host "Fresh Fire" with guest speaker, Dawnita Istre. Dawnita operates in a prophetic and teaching ministry. God uses her mightily and she was a featured speaker at the Pen-Florida Hope Tour this past March.

This event will take place on Saturday, July 24, 2010 at LIFT Church formerly known as Venice Assembly of God beginning at 9:00 - 10:00 a.m. for breakfast and registration. The event will start at 10:00 am.

A small registration fee will be charged of $10.00 to help cover food and expenses for this event. A love offering will be taken to bless our speaker.

Information packets will be coming soon to you leaders and churches. Please mark this very important date this summer for an outpouring of the Holy Spirit in our section!

We believe we've heard from God! We're expecting a great move of the Holy Spirit to touch and minister to the women of Section 13!

Make your plans to come today! It's going be AWESOME!

Hugs,
LaDonna

If you can take it....you will make it!

Last week Keith and I were so excited about going to District Council. This is a time for those in the ministry to get away for fellowship and special services.

It's a time to see friends and be with those that share the same vision and calling in ministry. It's an opportunity to share our experiences good and bad with one another.

I love the services in the evenings and especially the praise & worship! It's a time of renewal, refreshing and refilling.

We all need that desperately and if the truth were told....we need it more often than once a year! Giving out constantly is exhausting and draining in every way.

Keith and I enjoyed Monday and Tuesday night and were blessed abundantly! we were rejoicing in the great time of ministry. Afterwards, we enjoyed great fellowship and saw friends we hadn't seen in a long while.

However, during the wee morning hours on Wednesday Keith became violently ill and by 8 am it hit me. We both were so sick....I can't begin to tell you how awful it was! So, I won't be graphic. Neither of us slept for two days except for dozing and running to the bathroom.

We were suppose to leave Wednesday morning to go home for our mid-week service. There was no way we could travel. We had to stay in the hotel...sick and miserable! There is nothing worse than being so ill and away from home from your familiar surroundings.

We sent Ramon and Laura our Youth pastor's home to conduct the services in our place.
We went through a day and another night of this Hell! I'm not exaggerating!!

The day before at Tuesday's Women's Ministries luncheon our guest speaker, Dawn Raley shared a powerful word.
The one quote that sticks with me from her sermon was "If you can take it, you will make it!"

We didn't realize how true those words would ring!!!

The last couple of years have been very difficult for Keith and I...the hardest we've ever had to deal with since being in the ministry. Praise God we're still standing! WE TOOK IT AND WE'VE MADE IT!

The scripture comes to mind as it has become a favorite in recent years.

Philippians 3: 12 - 14.
12 Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already arrived at my goal, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. 13 Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, 14 I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.


We know the enemy is out to kill, steal and destroy. He will use "whatever" to bring his plans to pass! We must be on guard at all times.

We're not looking back, but pressing forward towards the goal to win the prize!

Remember, "we can do all things in Christ who strengthens us".

If we can take it...we will make it! Especially with the Lord on our side!

Hugs,
LaDonna

Sisterhood of the Traveling Hats Tea

Today we had a lovely time at Gulf Coast Assembly with the WOW ladies. Some of our ladies hosted and decorated their tables with china and tea cups for a beautiful day!

Our guest ministry was missionary Margaret Register. She was a delight as she shared her experiences with her hats. Her hats have certainly traveled as she and her husband were missionaries for over 38 years! They have traveled all over the world as Latin American missionaries with the Assemblies of God.

We had many visitors and gave away great door prizes!

Our leadership team and hostesses worked endlessly to make it a perfect day!

If you missed it, you really missed it!

Hugs,
LaDonna

Dawnita Istre, "Fresh Fire" Section 13 Event

Section 13 is proud to host "Fresh Fire" with guest speaker, Dawnita Istre. Dawnita operates in a prophetic and teaching ministry. God uses her mightily and she was a featured speaker at the Pen-Florida Hope Tour this past March.

This event will take place on Saturday, July 24, 2010 at LIFT Church formerly known as Venice Assembly of God beginning at 9:00 - 10:00 a.m. for breakfast and registration. The event will start at 10:00 am.

A small registration fee will be charged of $10.00 to help cover food and expenses for this event. A love offering will be taken to bless our speaker.

Information packets will be coming soon to you leaders and churches. Please mark this very important date this summer for an outpouring of the Holy Spirit in our section!

We believe we've heard from God! We're expecting a great move of the Holy Spirit to touch and minister to the women of Section 13!

Make your plans to come today! It's going be AWESOME!

Hugs,
LaDonna

An Afternoon Tea

An Afternoon Tea..

Recently, one of our ladies from WOW (Women of Worth) leadership team from my church won a contest at a local radio station where she could invite 8 ladies to Tea at the Ritz Carlton in Sarasota. We were all pleasantly surprised and dropped any plans we'd made that Saturday, so we could attend.

I love sipping on Tea's and setting up pretty tablescapes in our home. My family probably thinks I'm nuts setting up the table that we rarely sit down to eat. It's basically for looks, but sometimes I surprise them and serve a meal there.

See, the above pics of our recent trip to the Ritz Carlton. It was a very nice weekend. The weather was beautiful and it was Easter weekend too! I came across information from a blogger I follow and asked her permission to copy this info. She was so was kind and consented. So, this comes from her. I found it quite helpful explaining Tea's.
Hugs,
LaDonna


From: "The Thrifty Groove"

Afternoon Tea
This is the one that comes to mind when people think of English tea ceremonies. It all began back in the mid 1800s, when the Duchess of Bedford started having a tray of tea with bread and butter served to her in the mid-afternoon. You see, in those days, lunch was served at noon but dinner was not eaten until 8 or even 9 o'clock at night. The Duchess found herself hungry during those long afternoon hours. It became a regular occurrence and as she began to invite other high-society ladies to join her, having Afternoon Tea became the 'in-thing' for the upper-class women. Along with tea, there would be small pastries with clotted cream or preserves, delicate sandwiches, and scones.

High Tea
Many people use the term "High Tea" to describe the event I've mentioned above, probably because it sounds more elite. But High Tea is a much different thing. It was served later (around six in the evening) and consisted of a full, dinner meal for the common people. Tea was still served, but there would also be meats, fish or eggs, cheese, bread and butter, and cake. It was more of a man's meal, than a ladies social diversion.

Source; About.com

High Tea is often a misnomer. Most people refer to afternoon tea as high tea because they think it sounds regal and lofty, when in all actuality, high tea, or "meat tea" is dinner. High tea, in Britain, at any rate, tends to be on the heavier side. American hotels and tea rooms, on the other hand, continue to misunderstand and offer tidbits of fancy pastries and cakes on delicate china when they offer a "high tea."

Afternoon tea (because it was usually taken in the late afternoon) is also called "low tea" because it was usually taken in a sitting room or withdrawing room where low tables (like a coffee table) were placed near sofas or chairs generally in a large withdrawing room. There are three basic types of Afternoon, or Low Tea:

Cream Tea - Tea, scones, jam and cream

Light Tea - Tea, scones and sweets

Full Tea - Tea, savories, scones, sweets and dessert

In England, the traditional time for tea was four or five o'clock and no one stayed after seven o'clock. Most tea rooms today serve tea from three to five o'clock. The menu has also changed from tea, bread, butter and cakes, to include three particular courses served specifically in this order:

Savories - Tiny sandwiches or appetizers

Scones - Served with jam and Devonshire or clotted cream

Pastries - Cakes, cookies, shortbread and sweets

Source:Whats Cooking America

Have a cup of Tea!

How a leader should handle inevitable challenges

These nine steps are taken from "Transformed Lives", author, Chris Adams who suggest biblical response to conflict. These steps also help a leader know how to react to external challenges.

1. Do Nothing. Take a break from the people and situation. Distance from the challenge to give a fresh perspective.
2. Exhibit self-control. Respond slowly and do not over-react. Impulsive responses often lead to regret.
3. Stop, think --and pray. As you pause and reflect, be sure to pray. Ask for God's guidance.
4. Ask yourself, is the issue worth pressing? The challenge may be insignificant. If so, forget it and move on. If not, continue the process of resolution.
5. Evaluate your own attitudes, strengths, and weaknesses. Try to determine your role in the challenges. Ask God to identify your successes and failures.
6. Follow scriptural guidelines. God's Word gives directions for facing any conflict and all challenges. (See Matthew 18:15-16, Romans 12:17-21, & James 1:19-20).
7. Ask questions for clarification. Gather accurate information and handle any miscommunication. (Don't assume anything!)
8. Discover those things on which you do agree. In other words, try to focus on the positive. Find points of agreement and mutual benefit.
9. Take some time apart. Wait on the Lord to work in your own life, the lives of others, and the situation.

These are excellent and helpful in every area of our lives, in the workplace, home, and ministry. We all have and will face challenges with difficult people, in tough circumstances. Remember that the Lord has the solution to every leadership challenge we may face.

Hugs & Blessings,
LaDonna

Keeping my Christian Testimony

Today my husband and I along with a another couple went to lunch after church like we usually do on Sunday afternoon. The husband had a great idea to go to a place in Punta Gorda at Fisherman's village that we don't drive to very often.

It seemed like a great idea. The place was crowded with people as usual this time of year. We went into the restaurant and was told that we if wanted to sit in the dining area there would be a wait of 10 - 15 minutes. The hostess sweetly said we could sit in the bar area and be served there.

We decided to do that and had proceeded to push two tiny tables together to make room for four.

Our waiter came to the table and just grunted at us basically asking what we wanted to drink. So, we gave him our drink order. Right from the get-go he had the attitude that we were putting him out just by being there!

He came back but went over to another couple that came in after us and took their food order. Finally, he came over and started to take our food order. You would think that if you saw two couples together that there would be two separate tickets? He didn't bother to ask and when we told him so, he took our menu's and threw them down saying he'd have to start over and this wouldn't work! We couldn't believe it!!! A grown man having a temper tantrum right in front of us???

At that point we were ready to walk out....but where would we go at this point? That whole plaza was packed with people a week before Easter.

Now mind you, we've eaten there many times and we live in the area. We are not seasonal folks....you treat us right and we'll come back in the summer when you really need us and our business.

While we were waiting for our food order, he brought us two pitchers of soda. That's always a "red flag" Don't bother me for refills. Help yourself! When he brought one of the pitchers to our table, he about knocked my husband over leaning over him to pour my drink and missed....soda poured all over my pants and down over my shoes onto the floor.

I was polite and said, "Sir" you poured soda all over me. Thank God the table had slates instead or it would have all ended up in my lap. He did bring me napkins to clean up.

He didn't apologize or help clean up the mess he'd made. I have to say at that point...I wondered... what do you do? Get mad? Tell him off? I decided to pray for him.

It gets worse...finally, our food arrived and I have to tell you that on top of our waiter's sorry attitude I found two hairs in my food. One was in my new potatoes and the other in the hush puppies we ordered. I didn't say a word. Why bother at this point?

The food was actually very good and believe it or not, the hairs didn't bother me as much as this man's horrible behavior to us.

He didn't get our tickets right and it took FOREVER for him to bring them back.

You might wonder if we left him a tip?? Yes, we did....not the 20% or more we give wait staff at times. We decided not to award his bad job....but we were very polite and kind in spite of the way he treated us.

This probably was the worst dining experience I can remember in a long time. Makes you wonder why is he waiting tables? Surely, with our economy...there are more capable and willing people to do this that enjoy it!

I did call the restaurant to speak with a manager. The woman I spoke with was not the manager but did proceed to tell me that they've had complaints before.....I was nice....promise! She really was no help, but said she'd relay my message to the owners.

Sometimes you have to take the high road and we did. We treated him more kindly than he treated us. If I see him in there next time, you can bet I won't let him wait on us again! We did the right thing regardless...

Hugs,
LaDonna

Authentic Beauty -it's what's inside that counts!

March 19, 2010

Hi Ladies,
I really got something from this devotional today from RBC Ministries. I hope it minister's to you as it did me!

Hugs,
LaDonna

READ: Proverbs 31:21-31

Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, but a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised. —Proverbs 31:30

I often take a moment as I wait at our grocery store checkout stand to scan the covers of the magazines displayed there. It seems that if they aren’t about sex and money, they’re about diet, fitness, health, and outward beauty. There’s nothing there for the soul.

The problem is that people read the wrong magazines—those that are full of lies that fixate on beauty of face and form as though that’s all there is. This can lead to comparison and terrible despair.

Some years ago, a friend of mine told of a conversation he had with a lovely, self-assured teenager. “You’re very self-confident,” he observed. “Can you tell me why?” “Yes,” the young woman answered. “It’s because I’m so pretty.” “Oh, I’m sorry,” he said with extraordinary wisdom. “Why?” she asked in surprise. “Because,” he replied, “you may not always be pretty.”

“Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing” is the wisdom we read in Proverbs 31. Physical beauty all too quickly fades away; all one’s efforts to keep it are doomed to fail. But there is an inner beauty—authentic beauty that will endure forever—in the one “who fears the Lord” (v.30). — David H. Roper

Let the beauty of Jesus be seen in me—
All His wonderful passion and purity!
O Thou Spirit divine, all my nature refine,
Till the beauty of Jesus be seen in me. —Orsborn

Righteousness in the heart produces beauty in the character.

Section 13 Women's Ministries Update 2010

Section 13 Women’s Ministries leadership Information Gathering

These notes are from the Brunch on Saturday, February 27th 9:30 am

Please check out the website for more information that you can print out for your ladies to have. Visit http://www.gowomensministry.com
Hope Tour – FREE EVENT! 

Three locations & dates 9:00 am - 3:30 pm
*Calvary Assembly of God, Winter Park March 6th
*Bethel Assembly of God, Lake Worth March 20
*First Coast Christian Center, Jacksonville March 27

Awesome Worship, Speakers, & Workshops
(Check with your church office for packet/ DVD promoting this or check out gowomensministry.com
Aline’s Gift – Women’s Ministries (our missions outreach).

In 2009 Section 13 won first place giving the most to Aline’s gift of $5236.46! Thank you ladies for your part in making this happen!

Each Section in Pen-Florida is asked to raise a minimum of $3000.00. We almost did that last year and we can double with your help! If we all do our part, we CAN Make a Difference! (Please check website to view Aline’s gift video for more information. Your church should have a received a DVD to present to your ladies.

*Make pledges for Aline’s Gift and ask the Lord to help you raise it as a Women’s group.
*Ear mark your giving to Pen-Florida district as Aline’s Gift.
Dream Home – a new ministry Pen-Florida Women’s Ministry has partnered with-located out of Clermont City, Florida.

*First home in the U.S. for victims of Human Trafficking.
*Have a need to furnish their chapel with folding tables for Bible & Educational studies.
*Need 7 tables at $100.00 aprox per table – I’ve pledged our section to meet this need. Will you help me? If 7 churches take a table – the need will be met

Check out their website for further information: www.runforfreedom.net
Fall Breakaway – September 30 – October 2, 2010

Location: Champions Gate, Omni Kissimmee, Florida website:http://www.omnihotels.com/FindAHotel/OrlandoChampionsGate.aspx

Guest ministry: Rita Springer check out her website:http://ritaspringer.com/
Recording artist and speaker known for songs: Worth it all, I have to believe.
Daughters by Design: a new ministry to our girls underneath the leadership of Marsha Woolley and Season Russo.

A ministry designed to reach young girls through women’s events, girl’s events, and charity. For girls ages 14 – 19 years old. **I’ll send information to you that missed this information time regarding this ministry.
One a week $52.00 for the year

An opportunity for your ladies to support the Pen-Florida Women’s ministries department to assist with financial support in running the women’s department. A cd of Marsha Woolley’s testimony going through cancer will be sent for your support.
National Women’s Ministries Department Theme for 2010: Thirsty? 

Psalm 42:2, I thirst for God, the living God. (NLT)

Please check for your packet from the National office. Excellent resource in reaching women of all age groups Check it out! You can go online and view and print this at:
http://women.ag.org/resources/artwork_and_logos.cfm

Good article on: Three Dimensional Design: Tailoring Ministry for Every Woman in this issue.
A few things…..

Tentative Section Event this summer: Saturday, July 10th or 17th (pending) at Lift Church (previously known as: Venice Assembly of God. Thank you Rhonda!
(Details coming, but please mark your calendars)

*Tithe your offerings to Pen-Florida earmarked Women’s Ministries.

*Make pledges to Aline’s Gift and Dream Home

Quote from Marsha Woolley, “Keep the Passion for Women’s Ministries burning in your hearts!”

FYI: The Leadership bible study I mentioned is called: “A Woman’s Guide to Servant Leadership” by Rhonda H. Kelley, New Hope Publishers (I use this for my Women’s Ministries Leadership team at my church – we meet once a month to plan our events and do this bible study).


If you have questions regarding anything, please do not hesitate to contact me.
It’s my pleasure to serve and assist you

Love & Hugs,
LaDonna

Hope Tour 2010 is just around the corner!

It is almost here!!! HOPE TOUR 2010!!
The Hope Tour is one of the most exciting events Pen-FL Women's Ministry has ever undertaken. It consist of a team of spirit-filled women of all ages from right here in Pen. FL. There are 3 locations in Florida, beginning in Orlando at Calvary Assembly of God, March 6, 2010. Come and join 11 real women, telling real stories, sharing real pain and having real victory. Ladies ages, 14-114, are invited to attend and experience pockets of Hope in areas like:
Been laid off? Now what?
Bounce back from bankruptcy or foreclosure (tips to stretching the family dollar)
Learning to live with chronic or terminal illness
Facing a marriage in crisis
When opposites attract
Overcoming depression
Uncovering secret hurts
Finding living water in the middle of a dry season
Shop your closet-Create a new look by mixing, matching, and bargain hunting
Who me? Yes, even you can find time to exercise
Not the average girl (ages 14-19)
From these 11 ladies hear anointed teaching and preaching and also awesome worship with Charisma’s Rebecca McInnis.

All this packed into one powerful Saturday from 9 a.m. – 3:30 p.m. Lunch will be provided on-site for $6.

For Women’s Ministry groups larger than 10, preferred seating is available.

There will be drama, there will be music, and we can guarantee there will be women who will be set free. So if you’re depressed, lethargic, struggling financially, or just plain dry as toast spiritually, look out- Hope is coming and it has something for EVERY woman.
Maybe you know someone that needs to get their Hope Tank filled, call them up and bring them it will be a blessing for both of you.

About 1 month ago, you should have received a packet of information from the district office that included a flyer and video announcement.

Calvary is hosting a Women in Worship Friday evening, March 5, 2010 at 7pm.

You can view the Video announcement and additional information about the Hope Tour and Women's Ministry at  http://www.gowomensministry.com

If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to contact me.

Hugs,
LaDonna Jones
Section 13 Women's Ministries Rep.

Time away in Mt. Dora, Florida

This week my honey and I have taken some much needed time away. We came back on Thursday, but I'm not going back into the office until Monday. I'm enjoying my time here at home. Every time we go to Mt. Dora I get inspired to decorate and cook yummy things we've had while being there. We stay so busy in the ministry and working that it's important to take time away with each other.


My husband is such a wonderful man! Sometimes I think like most we take our spouses for granted. He blogged how during our time in Mt. Dora that he went through one antique shop and frilly, foo foo shop after the other. Probably, the most uncomfortable thing for him was the Garden Gate Tearoom. This is one of the highlights for me. You don't see many men in there. It is a place women love. 


While we were eating lunch, two women stumbled in and were oohing and ahhing at how beautiful and shabby chic it was decorated. They'd left their husbands up a block or two and wanted to go get them to eat lunch there. We never saw them come back! The food is very good and their are known for their signature soup, "Sherried Carrot Bisque". I'm trying to duplicate it as I love it so much. The food portions are generous and they have great desserts!


Garden Gate does a lot of catering, weddings, showers, etc. I highly recommend it if you are in the area!


Keith and I did a lot of resting, reading and just enjoyed being with each other. We enjoyed our stay at the Lakeside Inn. It has a lot of history and character it was established in the 1800's.

It was wonderful to get away, but always good to come back home and sleep in our own bed. I must be getting old. Have you ever seen the commercial where the couple that's been on vacation and they fall forward on their beds telling the bed how much they've missed it so much. That's the way we always feel! ha! yeah, we are getting old!

Well, today I'm lounging around....enjoying this last day! Made a pot of home made chicken noodle soup and creating tablescapes! How fun! Hope you enjoy my pics!


Hugs,
LaDonna

Legacy

I've been blessed to have been brought up in a Christian home. God has had his hand on me and my parents and their parents on both sides of my family.

My grandmother on my dad's side went to the Assembly of God where she lived. Recently, while going through my grandmother's things I found that she went to a Christian college prior to her marriage. I believe that God was calling her into ministry. Ever since I can remember my grandmother was involved in her church. She took her ministries seriously and did them with excellence and served in many areas of ministry.

The grandparents on my mother's side also attended an Assembly of God church in North Dakota and served in the Salvation Army organization for many years helping as long as their health allowed them to do so.

After my parents marriage they moved to Michigan where my dad worked in the grocery industry and mom worked in retail. Those years were very unsettled with racial wars taking place in the big cities in the late 50's. Not long after their move to Michigan they found that they were expecting me!

My parents were young, and after my dad being held up at gunpoint, they felt God was leading them to move out of the big city so that they could settle down and raise their new family in a safer place.

My grandparents on my dad's side were snowbirds and would come to Florida in the winter and go back up to Michigan in the summer. They decided to make the move permanently and invited my mom and dad to make the move with them to Florida.

Thus that is how I became a Floridian just shy a few months from being a notherner! ha!

My parents didn't own a car and my mom was very pregnant by this time with me and they wanted to go to church, so they walked. It was quite a few miles for her to walk carrying me. Once they got to the Assembly of God church the folks there welcomed them and offered to take them home so they didn't have to walk all the way back home.

God blessed my parents, dad found a job, they were able to buy a home of their own. They had two children and now have grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

This church is the place where I was raised and grew up. They took me to church every time the door was opened and mom taught us God's word. Dad paid for me to take piano lessions, which I hated at the time, but now so glad that he did! I was mentored and given the opporunity to play in services at 15 years of age, sang in the choir and ensembles.

God was preparing me for what He had in store for me. I'm so thankful for the legacy I have been given. Not everyone has the testiimony that I've been blessed with. Now it's up to me what I do with this gift.

Thank you Lord for this legacy. Thank you for Godly parents and grandparents that prepared the way for me. Help me Lord to do the same for my children and their children.

Genesis 17:7
I will establish my covenant as an everlasting covenant between me and you and your descendants after you for the generations to come, to be your God and the God of your descendants after you.

Hugs,
LaDonna

Today's Our Daily Bread February 5, 2010

This devotion really spoke to my heart today. The thing that stuck out to me is that we in the ministry have to realize that sometimes we only have a season to minister and influence people that we are in contact with. When our time is over and let me assure you, it does end for one reason or another..we have to learn to let go and let God do the rest. My prayer is that they will continue to grow and that His will be done in their lives.

Hugs,
LaDonna

February 5, 2010
Like A Tree

READ: Ephesians 4:11-16
He shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water. —Psalm 1:3

In the quietness of my final years I plan to watch a tree grow—a birch tree I planted as a tiny sapling over 30 years ago. It stands now in mature splendor, just outside our picture window—beautiful in every season of the year.

So it is with our spiritual endeavors: We may have planted, watered, and fussed over our “saplings” (those we’ve mentored) for a time, but only God can make a “tree.”

Occasionally I hear from those I ministered to years ago, and discover to my delight that they have grown to maturity and have been greatly used of God—with no help from me. It’s a gentle reminder that I plant and water for a while, and help others “grow up in all things into Him who is the head—Christ” (Eph. 4:15). But only God “gives the increase” (1 Cor. 3:6-7).

German theologian Helmut Thielicke writes, “The man who doesn’t know how to let go, who is a stranger to quiet, confident joy in Him who carries out His purposes without us (or also through us or in spite of us), in Him who makes the trees grow . . . that man will become nothing but a miserable creature in his old age.”

So, at my age, I may yet tend a sapling or two, but mostly I will let go and watch them grow. — David H. Roper

A Prayer: Lord, I want to be used by You in others’ lives. Teach me from Your Word so that I can help others follow You. And enable me to let go and trust You to work in them. Amen.

Happy Valentine's Day

My new favorite thing to do is to create "Tablescapes" - as Sandra Lee from the Food channel says.

Jessica my oldest helped me decorate my new theme for this month. Hope you enjoy it! I know I am!

Hugs,

LaDonna

Section 13 Won!

Dear Ladies,

It's been a while since I've really posted on this blog. My laptop was not in working order. Thank God it's been repaired. There is so much to bring you ladies up to date on!

Last weekend, I had the privilege of meeting with Marsha Woolley and all the Women's Ministries Rep's of Pen-Florida at the Champions Gate Omni in Kissimee, which is a beautiful property!

The Fall Breakaway will be at the Omni property September 30 - October 2nd, 2010. The rooms are beautiful and I can't wait to try the lazy river! There is a beautiful spa area with steam room and jacuzzi with other services available. The ball rooms are very spacious and will handle our event well. The rooms and linens are plush and lovely. We will enjoy staying there for sure!

Pen-Florida Women's Ministries department is hosting the Hope tour with Marsha Woolley and friends. These will be held in March at three locations throughout Florida. The location that would be closest to us is Calvary Assembly of God in Winter Park Saturday, March 6th beginning at 9:00 am - 3:00 pm. The other locations are Lake Worth, March 20th and Jacksoville, March 27th.

There will be workshops galore with topics like:

*Not What? Been laid off, looking for purpose, find life and job too.
*Gumby Bounces Back, tips to stretching the family dollar back after a foreclosure, bankruptcy or divorce.
*It hurts, God-learning to live with chronic or terminal illness
*Overcoming depression
*Falling Sandcastles-facing a marriage in crisis
*Opposites Attract - Love and Respect
*Cover Girl - releasing hidden/private hurts
*Dry as toast - finding living water in the middle of a dry season
*Shop your closet - create a new look by mixing, matching and bargain hunting.
*Who me? Yes, even you can find time to exercise.

Please note this is a free event for our ladies. Of course, we would be responsible for transportation and meals, but it could be a day trip with no problem. Please encourage your ladies to attend the Hope Tour. We will be encouraged and blessed!

It's my pleasure and honor to let you know that you ladies of Section 13 came in First Place for Aline's Gift! Our section gave $5,236.46 to Aline's gift last year! I'm so proud of our ladies and churches for giving into this ministry. Marsha Woolley reported to us ladies that we were able to accomplish much because of us women here in Pen Florida! We are making a difference!

Marsha Woolley introduced us to a new ministry called, Run for Freedom with the first Dream Home here in the United States. This ministry helps girls and women that have been victims of Human Trafficking, YES! here in the U.S. This ministry is new to Pen-Florida and we are partnering with them to help.

Our portion to help is to purchase folding tables that break down for the girls to study on. These tables are much needed for them to study their school assignments and to study God's word in the chapel. I've committed our section to meet this need. Will you help me? We need to purchase 6 tables. If our churches pledge a small amount this need will be met easily. Thank you in advance for your help!

Just to review:
*Don't forget the Spring Hope Tour in March
*Remember to make a pledge for Aline's gift for 2010! We can double what we gave last year with the Lord's help!
*Run For Freedom - Dream Home (help them obtain 6 folding tables).

For more information, you may check the following websites for further details.

http://www.runforfreedom.net
http://www.gowomensministry.com

Looking forward to this new year and all that God has in store for his people!

You are loved!

Hugs,
LaDonna

Beauty for Ashes

My dear friend, Sandy Phinazee is hosting her annual "Inspire Conference" in February 25-27 at the Rosen Centre Hotel with guest speakers, Sandy Phinazee, Marsha Wooley, Worship by Jennifer Lee, and workshop speaker: Valerie Bell.
This is your opportunity to go to a women's conference if you haven't been to one lately.

Check out the details at http://www.Inspireconference.org
Hugs,
LaDonna

Merry Christmas from our family to yours!

Senior Pastor's wife Retreat!

Start 2010 off right with a weekend of fun, friends, ministry and a few pleasures you've only dreamed of .... Like some spa time, a golf lesson, a cooking class, a tennis lesson, a shopping trip, or a customized workout and nutrition plan.

• Cost is $250 (Due by December 19th or $250 at the door if room is still available) this includes 2 nights/3 days double occupancy stay at the fabulous Omni Resort at Champions Gate, Banquet dinner and breakfast Friday and Saturday morning.

• Golf lessons, tennis lessons even a lesson with the Resort's Chef,spend time relaxing at the Resorts European Spa, and the exquisite pool side cabanas to relax and refresh, shopping and much more

• This is a time for fellowship and ministry for PenFlorida's Leading Ladies

• Location
Omni Resort
1500 Masters Boulevard
ChampionsGate, FL 33896

Contact the Women's Ministry Department at the District Office to reserve your spot. Time is running out and space is limited. The PenFlorida Women's Ministry makes all the arrangements for you. Just contact the office and we will handle the rest.

You can send a check made payable to PFDC and send to

PenFlorida Women Ministries
P.O. Box 24687.
Lakeland Fl 33802
or call PenFlorida Women's Ministry Department 863-683-5726 Ext 232.
Scholarships available. Please email Marsha Woolley at mwoolley@penflorida.org

Hugs,
LaDonna Jones

Christmas!

Wishing you and your family a Merry Christmas!

Hugs,
LaDonna

Going without my laptop!

Hi Friends,

I realize it's been a while since I've posted as my laptop has been giving me fits, but hopefully it will be in good working order this week. It's been very difficult to go without it, but that should end soon!

Talk to you later,

LaDonna

In Every Season Section 13 Event

Today we celebrated God's goodness! We had a great day in the Lord at our Section 13
Women's Event which was held at Harvest Chapel Christian Center hosted by Pastors Brian and Paula Royer. Their hospitality was outstanding. They provided a beautiful place for us to receive and be blessed so that we may take it and spread it with others.

Thank you to all of you for your attendance and financial support this our section. It is an honor and privilege to have served as your rep. for close to 10 years now.

I was honored to have Sue Visaggio with us, as she helped with the door prizes. She is a true blessing and I admired her for her faithfulness as she has served as Girl/Missionettes Rep. in our section for close to 30 years! That is amazing! She is an inspiration to me for her dedication to our young girls.

Praise and worship was awesome! Thank you HCCF for everything!

Pastor Deanna Shrodes was amazing and shared a powerful word for us all!

Thank you again for supporting women's ministries!

Hugs,
LaDonna

Breakaway!

Rejoicing in God's goodness this past weekend! Thank you Marsha Woolley and Amy for all your hard work! Hearing so many praise reports! Thank you Lord for all you've done. To God be the Glory! We love and thank God for you!

Hugs,
LaDonna

Thank you ladies of Section 13!

Dear Ladies,

We just came away from our PenFlorida Breakaway conference at the beautiful Hyatt Regency Conference Center in Sarasota at Siesta Key. Our time away was amazing and so refreshing!

I wanted to take this opportunity to thank each of you for all your hard work in promoting the Breakaway! Because of your efforts our section had the most ladies at the conference representing section 13.

Marsha Woolley called me last Friday to tell me that I had won the grand prize! I was so surprised as I really didn't know or remember what the prize was! I was blessed with a beautiful Suite! It was huge and so very nice! This was an especially blessed and wonderful time for me as I know for all of you!

This year is the first time my husband, Keith and I in our years of ministry, that we have really struggled in so many ways. I'm not going to take the time to go through it all, but God knows. I was desperate to have some time away, because of extenuating circumstances beyond our control with my father-in-law's illness, we were unable to take a vacation, but needed to go visit him instead. In fact, my husband flew out to be with him again this weekend as he's doing poorly and not expected to make it much longer.

In September, our church held special services called "Breakthrough". On Wednesday evening, Marsha Woolley, came and ministered so beautifully to our people. I was on the piano as usual for altar ministry and she came to me and prophesied over me that God was going to give me a vacation that I and my husband could complete. She said, that God was going to give me some "softer things" to enjoy and that it would be effortless! To be honest, I though to myself that was great, but really didn't know how that would come to pass anytime soon.

Well, I'm a little slow....but it dawned on me that God was bringing this to past by allowing me to enjoy this time away and stay in a beautiful suite on the top floor with an incredible view of the water and downtown area with special little perks included!

So, thank you ladies! For your support, love, and well wishes! I don't feel I'm worthy of this, but in spite of myself He blessed me anyway and I appreciate you ladies for making this possible.

The weekend was refreshing, the worship intense! I danced all over the place! My calves are screaming today, but it was so worth it! Freedom....it was so sweet! I feel now God has given what's needed to take me through this season. God is good!

It was so good to see my sisters in the Lord and renewing friendships with ladies I've made over the years! Conferences are a great place to go and getaway!

On another note, I'd like to remind you of our section event next Saturday, November 7th with another awesome woman of God, Pastor Deanna Shrodes from Tampa. This event will begin with registration and breakfast at 9:00 am and the session will begin at 10:00 am. This will be held at Harvest Chapel Christian Center in Bradenton. Please call by next week for a count so we know how many to plan for! You may reach me at the office at 941-423-1939.

See you Saturday!

Love & Hugs,
LaDonna

Fall Breakaway Schedule

Fall Breakaway Schedule

Thursday, October 29, 2009
3 pm Hotel Check-In/Registration
7 pm Service with Marsha Woolley
7 pm Service for Daughters By Design

Friday, October 30, 2009
7 am Early morning prayer
10 am Service with Lisa Bevere
10 am Service for Daughters By Design
Noon Lunch on own
Workshops:
2 pm-4 pm “Taking Control of My Body and Liking It” Samantha Taylor
2 pm-4:30 pm Daughters By Design
4 pm-6 pm “Taking Control of My Money and Liking It” Sherry Bedford
4 pm-5 pm Senior Pastor’s Wives Tea Party – By invitation only
7 pm Service with Lisa Bevere
Purity Ceremony for Daughters By Design
Reception – Cake and Punch for all following the service
10:30 pm Movie for Daughters By Design

Saturday, October 31, 2009
7 am Early morning Prayer
9 am Service with Lisa Bevere
Daughters By Design
Noon Dismissed

Desert Song by Hillsong

Hillsong
This Is Our God
Desert Song-VERSE 1-
This is my prayer in the desert,
When all that's within me feels dry,
This is my prayer in my hunger and need,
My God is the God who provides,

-VERSE 2-
And this is my prayer in the fire,
In weakness, or trial, or pain,
There is a faith proved more worth than gold,
So refine me Lord through the flame,

-CHORUS-
I will bring praise,
I will bring praise,
No weapon formed against me shall remain,
I will rejoice, I will declare,
God is my victory and He is here,

[ Hillsong Lyrics are found on www.songlyrics.com ]
-VERSE 3-
This is my prayer in the battle,
When triumph is still on its way,
I am a conqueror and co-heir with Christ,
So firm on his promise I'll stand,

(repeat Chorus)

-REFRAIN-
All of my life, in every season,
You are still God,
I have a reason to sing,
I have a reason to worship,

(repeat Chorus)

-VERSE 4-
And this is my prayer in the harvest,
When favour and providence flow,
I know I'm filled to be emptied again,
The seed I receive I will sow

Ways to Simplify your life

I found this on a blog that I follow called Plea by Milton Dykes. This is really good and I thought we could all benefit from his entry. Check it out!

TWENTY WAYS TO SIMPLIFY

1. Eliminate ten things from your life.
2. Cut back on TV.
3. Escape to a quiet spot.
4. Set your own pace.
5. Get rid of clutter.
6. When you bring home something new, throw out something old.
7. Do only one thing at a time.
8. Say no at least once a day.
9. Enjoy the little things.
10. Take at least four breaks per day.
11. Determine what really matters.
12. Make peace with all people.
13. Tell the truth.
14. Appreciate beauty.
15. If you don't need it, don't buy it.
16. If you don't have time, don't do it.
17. Have a place for everything and put everything in its place.
18. Share your thoughts, feelings, and opinions with a friend every day.
19. Allow time to pray.
20. Thank God for what you have.

We can work on all these things, not overnight, but we can pick things and work towards them to make our lives easier.

Hugs,
LaDonna

In Every Season, Section 13 Event

Deanna Shrodes has partnered with her husband Larry of each church that they have served in their 22 of marriage and ministry together. Currently, she serves alongside him as co-pastor at Northside Assembly of God in Tampa, Florida. Deanna's passion is to invest in leaders through writing, speaking and coaching. She is an accomplished writer, musician and speaker. In addition to leading in the local church she ministers at home and abroad in conferences and churches. Her ministry has been featured in the Pentecostal Evangel, Billy Graham's Evangelistic Association's Decision Today, Religion.com, Crosswalk.com, USA Network News, the Christian Television Network, and many more. Her writings have been featured in Jill Briscoe's magazine, "Just Between Us" for ministry women, Woman's Touch, Enrichment Journal, Global Pastor's Wives Network, Women Mobilized for Ministry and Shepherdess Magazine, just to name a few. Deanna is a contributing writer to Simon & Shuster's Chocolate for a Woman's Courage, from their “Chocolate” series. These bestselling "chocolate" books of inspiration and motivation are sold everywhere, with over two million in print. She has written the books, Intimate Woman, and Above Average Woman, that have brought change to many women’s lives. The Shrodes have three children – Dustin (19), Jordan (18) and Savanna Rose (12).

Deanna will be with us on Saturday, November 7th at Harvest Chapel Christian Center in Brandenton. We hope that you will be there for this special day! Check out the previous blog entry and double click on the poster for further information.

Hugs,
LaDonna

"In Every Season Section" 13 Event

Please double click on the poster to enlarge for easy reading. Packets will be going out this week! Please ask your ladies to register for this event by November 2 to get an accurate food count. There is no charge for this event, but a love offering will be taken to cover expenses.

Our guest speaker is Pastor Deanna Shrodes from Northside Assembly in Tampa. You may check out her blog under the list of blogs I follow to the right.

This will be an exiting event!

Hugs,
LaDonna

October is Pastor Appreciation month

Here's an article from the National Women's Ministries Office for your information!

Hugs,
LaDonna


Pastor Appreciation

By Arlene Allen, Director of National Women’s Department

October is Pastor Appreciation Month. Hopefully, your church makes plans every year to honor your pastor and family. Check with your church office or deacons to see if plans are being made for this year. If they are not, be the catalyst and start a new tradition. You still have time to make it happen!

Your pastor, staff and their families are the key to your church’s future, in terms of growth, discipleship, evangelism, or social concerns. How much better could they perform and lead if they knew beyond a shadow of doubt that they and their families are loved, supported and lifted up by their congregation?

Below is a list of ways you can use to show honor. For convenience and consistency, we have used “he” and “him,” but virtually all the suggestions apply equally to women pastors.

How to Show Appreciation to Your Pastor

Let the pastor dream and be creative.
Talk to him; build a relationship of teamwork and trust.
Compliment him for timely sermons.
Invite the pastor and his wife to your home for a fellowship meal.
Purchase a gift for your pastor.
Pray for your pastor and wife by name every day.
Say to him, “I’m with you, you can count on me.”
Submit to him scripturally, according to Hebrews 13:17.
Stick with him even when you don’t understand his reasoning and approach.
Bake a cake for the pastor and his family.
Attend church regularly.
Send the pastor a humorous card to brighten his day, signed by everyone in your family.
Defend the pastor against faultfinders.
Believe with him that God desires to do new things in the church.
Show the community “love in action” by the way you provide for the pastor and support him.
Order him a special book.
Organize a pastor’s prayer partners’ ministry.
Ask friends to attend church with you.
Have confidence in the pastor’s motives and abilities.
Be willing to listen to his plans for change and growth.
Be a good follower.
Send him a fruit basket with a message of love from your family.
Help him create and champion visionary plans for church growth.
Reveal to him you are willing to submit to his leadership and to be teachable.
Don’t criticize the pastor.
Let him make mistakes; he’s human, after all.
Be a good listener; let his sermons sink deep.
Make a pan of fudge or candy for his family.
Don’t ever say, “We’ve never done it that way before.”
Send the pastor to a special conference or seminar.
Make sure he has a day off each week.
Ask the pastor, “How can I help you?”
Encourage the pastor’s wife to be her own person.
Be consistent in your witness and work in the church.
Be a partner in keeping his freezer stocked with meat and vegetables if you have a garden.
Pay your tithes consistently.
Encourage the church board to give the pastor a cost-of-living increase in salary each year.
Thank him for developing quality and excellence in ministry.
Buy into the pastor’s vision; accept ownership.
Compliment him for church progress.
Help form a pastoral concerns team to provide for the needs of the pastor and his family.
Encourage him with words and works.
Help send the pastor and his family on a once-in-a-lifetime vacation.
Give him tickets to a special event/activity.
Help the outreach of the church to intensify.
Arrange for a fall or spring housecleaning team for the pastor’s home.
Jump in and assist him on behind-the-scenes projects.
Plan a church-wide surprise birthday party for him.
Stand by him when he is in the line of fire.
Help redecorate the pastor’s office.
Prepare a meal for the pastor and his family.
Plan a church appreciation banquet for the pastor.
Refrain from saying, “that will cost too much.”
Order a pizza and send it to his home.
Honor and respect the pastor.
Embrace his focus on discipleship training.
Encourage the pastor’s children.
Feature a write-up in the local newspaper/radio about the ministry of the pastor.
Ask the mayor to proclaim a pastor appreciation day in the city.
Present the pastor with a plaque recognizing his achievements and honoring his commitment.
Support the pastor through action, affirmation, and accountability.
Hold up his hands as he leads the flock.
Listen to the pastor’s long-range goals and plans.
Assist in providing him with a membership to a health club.
Furnish him with fishing equipment and encourage him to get away from strain and stress.
Give the pastor an “I love you” gift certificate for a meal or merchandise.
Remember the birthday of his wife and children.
See that the pastor has time to be alone with God, time for his family, and personal time.
Treat the pastor’s wife to a spa experience.


Arlene Allen is an ordained minister with the Assemblies of God and director for the National Women's Department. She serves on the boards of the national Women in Ministry Task Force, Religious Alliance Against Pornography, and Global Pastors' Wives Network. She has an extensive speaking history that includes pulpit ministry, leadership training, and Women's Ministries and ministers' wives retreats.

This e-newsletter is a supplement to For Every Woman, ministry to women of the Assemblies of God.

Sit for a spell and have a cup of tea!

I love this pic. Found it in Better Homes and Gardens website.

I have an indoor room that is all frilly and has the cottage feel to it similar to this.

Can't you just see us sitting there enjoying a cup of tea and crumpets?

Hope you have a great day!

Hugs,
LaDonna

Fall Breakaway "Just Breathe" Schedule

Thursday, October 29, 2009
3pm Hotel Check-In 3pm Registration begins
7pm Service with J. Lee Grady author of, “10 Lies The Church Tells Women”
Following service - Pastor’s Wives and Women’s Ministry Leaders get-together – By Invitation Only

Friday, October 30, 2009
10am Service with Marsha Woolley, Pen Florida District Women’s Ministries Director
Noon Lunch on own 2pm-4pm

Breakout Sessions

Samantha Taylor – Pure Health Trainer/
Sherry Bedford – Living in God’s Economy Financial Advisor

7pm Service with Lisa Bevere, Keynote Speaker
Following the Service (9:30pm-10:00pm) Purity Ceremony for Daughters By Design

Saturday, October 31, 2009
9am Service with Lisa Bevere, Keynote Speaker
Noon Dismissed


Daughters By Design (ages 14-19)

Thursday
3pm Registration begins
7pm Service/Workshop (Daughters By Design Room)

Friday
10am Service with Marsha Woolley
Noon Lunch on own
2pm Workshop (Daughters By Design Room)
4:30pm Dismissed for supper, change for service & ceremony
7pm Service with Lisa Bevere
Following the Service (9:30pm-10:00pm) Purity Ceremony If desired, bring a dress or Sunday attire for ceremony
10:30pm Movie (Daughters By Design Room)

Saturday
9am Service with Lisa Bevere Following the service meet with girls to hang, swim, exchange info.

Fall Breakaway just breathe with Lisa Bevere

Dear Ladies,

I trust that you are having a great summer! The temp's have been unusually warm, so hope you've been staying cool. October will be here soon and we can enjoy nicer weather!

If you aren't aware of it by now, I wanted to bring to your attention that the Conference Hotel is full , but not to fear there are other options. The registration deadline for the early bird special of $50.00 is August 3rd. After that the price is $60.00 with a Sept. 3 deadline. Tickets at the door if available will be $70.00. Registrations are not refundable, but may be transferable.

There are rooms available at the LaQuinta.

Reservations directly with LaQuinta
1803 N Tamiami Trl
Sarasota, FL 34234
1.866.527.1498
Pen Florida Assembly of God
Confirmation # 7712GRVBPD
$69 for 4 people
Complimentary Breakfast
(1 mile/2 minutes)

There may be a few rooms left at the Hyatt Place. This is a beautiful property close by to the conference hotel.

Reservations directly with Hyatt Place
950 University Parkway
Sarasota, FL 34234
1.888.492.8847 or 1.941.554.5800
Assembly of God-Women's Dept
Code/Group # G-RAGO
$105 for 4 peopleComplimentary Breakfast
Shuttle provided Sarasota Hyatt and Hyatt Place (3.5 miles/6 minutes)

Please check at the Pen-Florida Women's Ministries page for info at: https://www.penflorida.org/406112.ihtml

If you are interested in bringing a group from your church time is of essence! So hurry and make your reservations! We're going to have a wonderful time! October is just around the corner!

Hugs,

LaDonna

***Reminder: We'll have our Fall event at Harvest Chapel Christian Center in Bradenton Saturday, November 7th with Rev. Deanna Shrodes! Check out her blog here.

"Life is a Theater--Invite Your Audience Carefully"

This has been around for awhile, but worth the read again.

Hugs,

LaDonna

Not everyone is spiritually healthy and mature enough to have a front row seat in our lives. There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a distance.

It's amazing what you can accomplish when you let go, or at least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible, not-going-anywhere relationships, friendships, fellowships.

Observe the relationships around you.Pay attention to: Which ones lift and which ones lean?

Which ones encourage and which ones discourage?Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are going downhill?When you leave certain people, do you feel better or feel worse?

Which ones always have drama or don't really understand, know and appreciate you and the gift that lies within you?

When you seek growth, peace of mind, love and truth, the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the front row and who should be moved to the balcony of your life.

You cannot change the people around you but you can change the people you are around.

Ask God for godly wisdom and discernment and choose wisely the people who sit in the front row of your life.

- Author Unknown

Reason, Season, Lifetime

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON,it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.They have come to assist you through a difficulty; to provide you with guidance and support; to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it. It is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

— A poem by Brian Andrew "Drew" Chalker

Weekend Wrap-up!

On Saturday we met at Church of Hope for our section 13 event "Sister 2 Sister". This is probably one of the best events we've ever had! Everything was done with excellence with Tammy at the helm of her ladies group Heart 2 Heart. Her ladies prepared a beautiful continental breakfast with tables and coffee bar set up in their church lobby.


Senior Pastor Scott and Darla Young were so gracious to host our event this weekend. The ladies of our section were so appreciative of their fine hospitality. Their church campus is beautiful and God has blessed that work tremendously in years they've pastored in Sarasota. You can see Church of Hope's steeple from Interstate 75.


Our speakers were amazing! Rev. Joy Conley from Harvest Assembly of God, Lakeland, Florida and and Rev. Tammy Young from Church of Hope . The platform had a living room feel to it with a beautiful back drop. The ladies shared about Mary and Martha. The first session was called "The tale of two sisters" with a break in between. The second session was called "Turning Martha minutes in Mary moments". They did a team teaching and it was powerful! Just a note if you missed this event or enjoyed it so much, you may purchase a copy of the DVD for $15.00.


We had fun giving away some pretty nice door prizes! Books by Phyllis Benigas, Intimate Moments with the Shepherd, Joyce Meyer, candles, gift baskets and beautiful signed prints by our own local nationally known Christian artist, Danny Hahlbohm. Check out his beautiful work here.


Thank you to all of you ladies that came and supported our event and a special thank you to staff and women's ministries of Church of Hope and Tammy Young for providing a wonderful day for all of us.


Hearts were touched and changed and the Holy Spirit ministered to many that day! It was awesome and the best time ever!


Love & Hugs,

LaDonna